This month at Black Earth we are focusing on Responsibility and Helpfulness. You could recognize your child by saying things such as "I appreciate you using the greatness of responsibility by getting your homework done right away" or I notice you are being responsible by picking up your toys. For helpfulness, you could say "I notice you being helpful by setting the table" Or "I see you helping your little sister put away the toys that shows me how helpful you are!" These little acknowledgements help build your child's inner wealth and how they feel about themselves.
Article: Helping Children with Transitions: https://childmind.org/article/why-do-kids-have-trouble-with-transitions/
Article: How to help child tantrums and meltdowns: https://childmind.org/article/how-to-handle-tantrums-and-meltdowns/